A few days ago I confessed that Yelling Mom was being ousted, in favor of a sweeter, gentler Non-Yelling Mom. It has been a little challenging but I have been very consciously taking deep breaths and speaking my responses to ridiculous questions or tantrums. So this morning I said to Dylan, "Hasn't it been so nice the past few days? We've been getting along so well!" He looked up at me, shrugged, and said, "I hadn't noticed." Ah well, I guess that means I wasn't scarring him with all the yelling. That's good.
Dylan made me these hearts as an anniversary gift. Sweet, huh? Ten years ago I was newly graduated from college, in love and ready to get married! Well, technically I was freaking out about getting married, which probably made Ken feel super good. Most of you know this story and the rest of you probably don't care, but it's my blog, so ppppthhhht! Ken lived across the street from me during our last year of college (but curiously, we were 24 and 25. Oh, how I love BYU). He and his room mate spent many evenings, and when I say evenings I really mean late at night, in my living room talking to my room mates, Laura and Cheryl (hi guys!). I would emerge from my basement lair, tell them to pipe down and then retreat for my beauty sleep and morning classes. Ken would hang out then go home, watch a movie, go jogging at 3 am and then sleep until noon. Somewhere in there I assume he also studied a bit but maybe not. He probably just showed up and dazzled his professors with his ...
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I think your goal is an admirable one and you deserve tons of congratulations. And I can't picture your sweet mom yelling either. Hi, Myrna!